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3 Types of Stress and How to Fight Them

I came across a line that goes somewhat like this–stress is a disconnection from earth and forgetting to breathe. It believes that everything around you is an emergency.

Once you calm down and the situation finally works out, you understand that in the end, nothing is quite that important.

Stress, if you experience it from time to time, is a normal reaction to everyday life activities. And if you look at its brighter side, then stress in small doses could be good, helping you move on and motivating you to perform better.

However, whether you are stressed about a bad day at work, social unrest, or other personal baggage, all these stressors around can make the situation very difficult. But you are lucky that easy stress management techniques are here to take very good care of you.

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Stress can create a lasting impact on anyone’s mental health. It is a kind of response, meaning your body’s natural emotional, physical, and mental reaction. As mentioned, stress can be rooted in various kinds of life activities–switching jobs, dealing with an aggressive boss, a life-changing event, or a new project, or it stems from the person’s surroundings, like a difficult conversation.

What happens when the body faces threat?

In a difficult, stressful situation, the body releases hormones that heighten blood pressure and increase alertness. Such a circumstance results in a lack of sleep, muscle tension, and other symptoms.

Is stress common?

More than 280 million people around the world have an anxiety disorder. The most stressed nations in the world are:

  • Greece – 59%
  • Philippines – 58%
  • Tanzania – 57%
  • Albania – 55%
  • Iran – 55%

Types of Stress

Ambient Anxiety

Ambient anxiety can be chronic and mostly happens during a current crisis or world unrest, and the best example can be the coronavirus pandemic. It is an intense reaction to unpleasant news and events.

Every person suffers from ambient anxiety at one point or another. And the best way to manage this kind of anxiety is by limiting the intake of everyday news and practising self-care. This way, you can avoid the negativity around you and the negative people who thrive on pessimism.

Acute Stress

Acute stress is your body’s reaction to a difficult situation. It can happen when a deadline is approaching or in some other similar circumstances. So, in simple words, acute stress occurs after an unexpected crisis, like a traumatic event or an accident.

Acute stress can cause emotional ups and downs, lack of concentration, or poor sleep. Physical symptoms could be chest pain, palpitation, difficulty breathing, abdominal pain, etc.

The good news is that you can manage acute stress, too, with Cognitive behavioural Therapy (CBT), counselling, self-care, regular exercise, or limiting caffeine.

Episodic Acute Stress

An individual faces episodic acute stress when they stress frequently. Having episodic acute stress is frustrating both mentally and physically. It feels like there is always some kind of external pressure or something about to go wrong. Such stress can happen when you take too much responsibility, have interpersonal problems, have a demanding job, or interpret situations in a catastrophic manner.

Episodic acute stress symptoms include feeling overwhelmed, muscle tension, hypertension, and migraines. 

The best way to calm yourself and take your mind off this episodic stress is by making lifestyle changes. Easier said than done, sure, but changing certain habits or incorporating new ones can make you feel peaceful. You can get a massage, dance, take a bubble bath, or whatever helps you ease up. Experts also suggest practising relaxation techniques, like progressive muscle relaxation and deep breathing.

While some stress is fine; if it starts affecting your well-being, you need to make certain changes in your lifestyle or immediately contact a healthcare professional. Some health problems could be:

  • Anxiety disorder
  • Burnout
  • Digestion problems
  • Heart problems
  • Obesity

3 easy stress management techniques

1. Always communicate

Whether it is your mental health expert or a trusted friend, communicate whatever you are feeling at the moment. Stress is relieving when you show your vulnerable side to them.

2. Maintain a reflection journal

Dedicate at least ten minutes every day to describe the stressors. Write how your day went and what caused you difficulty. Rate your experience on a scale of 1 to 10. These simple activities show powerful results

3. Mind sweep

When you are burdened with things and feel overwhelmed, just take a few minutes and write down whatever is on your mind. Your brain can stress you at times. Doing this can release the tension.

The idea basically is that you identify the problems or things that require your attention. These are the things that have the possibility of seeping in and affecting your mental well-being. Such problems can lead to a lack of focus and irritability.

If you are feeling stressed lately, then know that you are not alone. These three simple and easy techniques can surely help you refocus and calm your mind.

What other stress management techniques have you found helpful? What stress-relief books have you read lately? Let us know below!

Also, I hope you find one of these three suggestions useful!

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5 Gorgeous Offbeat Winter Destinations in India to Explore

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Are you spending winter without visiting the mountains or beaches?!

Sure about skipping the best time of the year and spending it in your dorm or the corner of your apartment, binging Netflix?

Honestly, these few months, especially from October to March, are a sigh of relief from the scorching heat and overbearing humidity, for winters are the best time for a quick vacation!

If you are almost convinced and started imagining yourself (even slightly) surrounded by the sweetness of nature, I will drop here the five best offbeat winter destinations in India for you to decide where to hop next! But first, let’s look at some compelling reasons and statistics, which might help you in your journey.

Why Winter Season is the Perfect Time for Travelling in India?

Travelling during the winter is always a bonus. Firstly, the weather is perfect, secondly, if you love mountains or beaches, it’s the best time to witness the elegance of nature, and thirdly, there are myriads of festivals and carnivals lined up in some of the offbeat winter destinations in India.

Both, international and local travellers look for places, lesser known to visit in India to immerse in the vast plains, snow-capped mountains, warm deserts, and beautiful plains. 

A recent survey mentions that one in three Indians are planning to travel during the upcoming holiday season. Among the surveyed, 70% and more are wanting to rejuvenate and enjoy the winter season with their family, partners, friends and colleagues.

So while you rest and enjoy your deep sleep, the travel enthusiasts will pack their bags and explore the offbeat winter destinations in India during the super favourable weather to soothe their souls.

Top Best Offbeat Winter Destinations in India

You have many options, either to visit a wintry place or to spend time in some less chilly destinations, whatever your choice is, I have compiled some destinations in India for beaches and mountain lovers.

1. Auli – To Witness the Snow-covered Beauty

During the winter, you can expect the temperature to cross -8 degrees Celsius. The beautiful landscape of the Auli hill station in Himachal Pradesh increases manifold in winter. Auli becomes a massive attraction for winter sports enthusiasts. One can go snow trekking, skiing, and snowboarding.

The first offbeat destination in India on our list, Auli is the best excuse to cuddle in the lap of nature.

Here are seven places to visit in Auli in winter:

  • Narsingh Temple
  • Nanda Devi Peak
  • Gorson Bugyal
  • Auli Artificial Lake
  • Joshimath
  • Chattrakund Lake
  • Auli Ropeway

2. Goa – For the Christmas and New Year Vibe

Offbeat destination and Goa? Is that what you are thinking? Well, let me explain.

The best decision I made last new year was to visit Goa. Believe it or not, winter holidays and Goa are the best companions. The sand, the beach, the ocean, and the good vibe, you cannot ask for more! Christmas and New Year are the best time to visit this strikingly amazing place. Whether with your colleagues, best friend, or partner, the blissful parties are simply unforgettable.

Carnivals mostly take place during January or February, and when visiting during these months, you can meet people from all over the globe. Make sure you see the street dancers, live band performances, and fire eaters.

The atmosphere in Goa is electrifying, and perfectly fits our offbeat winter destinations in India. The spirits are high, so relax, party, and groove a little on the beaches. There are some offbeat places too, like the spice plantations, striking sunsets, Goan caves, and pristine nature.

Note: Book your ticket well in advance.

3. Yuksom – Snow Blanketed in Layers

A magnificently breathtaking village, Yuksom in Sikkim becomes frosty and chilly. The snow-clad mountain is a must-visit during the winter months.

The charming town is located in the western part of Sikkim, surrounded by majestic mountains and forests. If you are looking forward to a fantastic holiday experience with rich culture, this picturesque town is just for you. Also called the Gateway to Kuchenjunga, nature and animal lovers are quite fond of this place.

The captivating views of the beautiful lake, forest, and monasteries will make you fall in love with this mesmerizing town. Some major attractions around Yuksom are:

  • Khecheopalri Lake
  • Tashiding Monastery
  • Dubdi Monastery
  • Kangchendzonga National Park
  • Norbugang Chorten

Did you know? Yuksom, the first capital of the Kingdom of Sikkim, was established in 1642 by the first Chogyal of Sikkim.

Situated at somewhat 8,500 ft above sea level, Rishyap or Rishop in West Bengal is a small Lepcha village on the Dooar’s hilltop. If you are an adventure freak, this is a must-visit hill station in India during the winter.

4. Rishyap – For Its Splendid Beauty

The charming village, far away from the hustle-bustle of city life, where the sun, forest, and mountain create a seemingly beautiful atmosphere. During the night, the sky fills up with twinkling stars. What’s more interesting is that Nathu La and Jalep La passes are almost visible on a distant horizon.

The colourful orchids and magnificent surroundings call out to every mountain lover out there! If you are searching for an offbeat destination in India that is a romantic, a quaint place located in the pristine valley, then Rishyap should definitely be on your list.

Tourists can witness Mt. Kanchenjunga, Mt. Kharg, Mt. Rathung, Mt. Kokthang, Mt. Pandim, Mt. Kabru, Mt. Narsingh and Mt. Simvo.

Surrounding Destinations: Rishi, Lolegaon, Lava, Pedong, Aritar

5. Alleppey – They Call It The Venice of East

Last but the best on our list of top 5 offbeat winter destinations in India is Alleppey in Kerela. The best time to visit Alleppey is between October to March when the temperature ranges between 18 to 30 degrees Celsius.

Famous for its backwaters, this small town will help you live the dream of staying in a houseboat. Explore the scenic charm, the local life, and the water adventure.

During the month of March, the town comes alive with an amazing 10-day religious festival full of celebration and pomp.

Things to do in Alleppey:

  • Stay in a houseboat
  • Go for a night walk
  • View gorgeous sunset
  • Bird watching
  • Explore beaches
  • Explore backwaters

So take advantage of the Indian winter season and book your tickets well in advance. Let yourself live what you cherish dreaming.

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5 Forms of Emotional Abuse that Wrecks Self-Esteem

Love is kind and is not rude. If it is none of these, how is that love?

Love is supposed to make you feel warm, comfortable and filled with bliss. It makes you dance in the pouring rain, and see every chance lovely. It embraces you with delight like no other, puts on you a smile that cannot be seen when you are with another. Love keeps you secure and safe, inside and out. Not only your body feels cozy but also your heart feels home. That’s how it is. Love is graced with beauty. 

But unfortunately, sadly and maddeningly, some people brush off the sanctity and splendor of love. Some taint it for other people by loving them without really loving. Abuse is one of the worst ways they do that. Violence in different forms wrecks hearts and smash lives. Pains appear in different faces and traces. Yet one sort that leaves wounds that the naked eye cannot completely see is emotional abuse. 

Emotional abuse aims to manipulate, control and harm the emotions of its victims, which eventually leads to maltreating their whole lives. This badly affects self-esteem because when emotions are stricken hard, thoughts get warped, and that’s not good. 

Take a look at the relationship you are in or you will be having in the future. Here are 5 forms of emotional abuse that drags down self-esteem. They are sometimes present in a relationship, and the victim does not even know. 

1 – Invalidating all your emotions

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You tell them you are hurt, offended or angered by what they have done, but they do not care. You share your pains and problems, which are not necessarily related to your relationship, but they just tell you not to be weak and to just stop the drama. Your partner gives you no sense of emotional security. While they want to be cared for and attended to when they are in need, they selfishly and blatantly invalidate your emotions. They look after their emotions while brushing aside yours. 

A romantic relationship is supposed to make you feel home. It makes you feel like you are in the safest place in the world, even without the most luxurious things. After a stressful and arduous day, that person feels like a relaxing rest in your cozy bedroom. If the exact opposite is what that relationship you are in serves, then you are emotionally abused in many different ways, and it’s not good.

2 – Embarrassing you in front of others

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Being embarrassed in front of yourself can be easily overcome, but being embarrassed in front of other people is different. The latter is much more discomfiting, and it’s hard to forget. Often, flashbacks of the embarrassing moments happen, and you just cry while wishing you could go back to that time and do something to stop it or change it. 

A partner that commits emotional abuse towards their significant other has a habit of embarrassing the other party in the presence of family, friends or even strangers. This comes in many forms. 

They share to others stories that you are not comfortable sharing but you shared to them because you trust them (now, they break that precious trust.) They do not mind calling you inappropriate names and letting other people hear it while you are there, wishing you could just disappear into thin air. While they could be pretentiously kind in your family’s side’s reunion, they nag at you, harshly correct you or criticize you before the very eyes of their own loved ones.

3 – Discrediting your wins

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In a romantic relationship, it is heartwarming and actually vital that each person supports and cheers for each other. It’s like you have your own cheerleader when you have a significant other who roots for you and does their best to show how they are proud of you. This gives you genuine joy and soothing relief that helps you do your best regardless of what the results would be. They support you emotionally, and that’s very essential especially when you are going through something or aiming to reach a particular goal. 

A partner inflicts emotional abuse on you by discrediting your wins and belittling your efforts. They do not celebrate your wins. They see them as trivial, when for you, they are as expensive as gold. Worthlessness is what they make you feel, even after achieving wins out of your own hard work. Sometimes, they even take credit for themselves when all they do is nothing.

4 – Guilt-tripping

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One of the most common, most obvious and most annoying signs of emotional abuse in a romantic relationship is guilt-tripping. When you point out their mistakes, they brazenly turn the tables around by saying, “But you did me wrong last time too”. When you ask them a big favor, they say, “You still have not given back the last time I helped you.” They always remind you of what they have done for you and tell you that you are nothing without their help.

As a result, you, the victim, tend to agree. Instead of successfully making them realize their wrongdoings, you point your fingers at yourself too. Instead of realizing they owe you a lot of things as well, you just see the things you owe to them, which are actually born out of pretense and abuse. 

5 – Being disappointed no matter what you do 

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No matter what good you do, they are disappointed and discontented. They make you feel it, and that makes you disappointed in yourself too. You start to question your worth and the value of all you do. You become too conscious about what they and other people will say about you. Your self-esteem relies on their belief and thoughts rather than on your true self-worth.

YOU AND WITHIN

Emotions are strong and powerful. They drive you to do something or to not do it. They influence your decisions and choices, both the littlest and the biggest ones. When they are steered by abuse, they get misaligned and contorted, and that deforms the way you see and look at yourself too. How your emotionally abusive partner perceives you mars how you perceive yourself; you become hard on yourself as well, when you should be the one defending yourself. 

Victims of emotional abuse experience double the abuse because the culprits exploit their emotions, and as a result, they act in ways that those exploited emotions urge them to do. Besides being dangerous, it’s very sad and exasperating.

If you are a victim of emotional abuse in a relationship, know that there are human protection programs, counselling help, lawyers, legal assistance and more concerned authorities that can aid you. Do not be afraid to seek help, also from family and friends  who can give you emotional support and security.

You and your emotions within are precious. Do not let anyone play with them like they’re nothing.  

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7 Travel Tips to Make Your Trip Surely One for the Books!

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Traveling is one of the ways to make the most out of life. There are many things you get to see, experience and learn, and you acquire them in a way that only traveling can do. Being out there, outside of your comfort zone, takes you to higher levels of excitement and exploration. A bucket of knowledge and worthwhile encounters get added to what you already have. 

People think that every trip is just the same, and that they are just meant to leave the house and spend money. However, trips are diverse. Each is colorful in its own way, and no second gets ever repeated, and that makes moments extra special. Actually, the beauty of your trips also lies in how you plan, prepare and act on them. Your ideas and effort count! Every piece completes a whole trip you will either forget easily or remember quickly!

Now, if you aim to spend a memorably wonderful trip that will not slip away from your heart, do something. Take note of the friendly points from the list below. Here are 7 travel tips to make your trip surely one for the books!

1 – Visit places you’ve never been to.

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The best place to create new memories is a place you have never been to before. It’s foreign to you, even if it’s a local travel destination. You have never seen it before you go there this time, so it’s definitely going to be a fresh kind of fascination. Visit places you want to go to, places you are curious about, places you just see in photos.

They are totally new to you, so you might feel hesitant, afraid or confused at first, but taking on such a fresh face (of a place) is going to be exciting and awesome! Except for those you already see posted online, you will never know what fantastic fun awaits! Of course, it’s still best to see and experience the place with your own senses and your own foot standing on their ground.  

Visit places you have never been to. Discover gems you didn’t know exist. 

2 – Taste foods you’ve never tried before.

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Food is one of the major memory-making parts of traveling. A trip is incomplete without tasty and drool-worthy dishes. Make the foodie tour more unforgettable by tasting foods you have never tried before. 

Check out the locals’ favorites. There’s always a golden reason why they are top-notch and well-known in town. Absolutely, they are also considered the pride of their places when it comes to food and delicacies. As you try those local foods that also come with colorful historical backgrounds and extraordinary recipes, you will enjoy not only the taste but also the experience and the essence. 

You might find your new travel favorites as you explore wide-ranging types of food and styles of cooking. What makes them even more appealing and fascinating is the fact that many of them cannot be found elsewhere but only in their places of origin. And if you ever find them in other cities, countries or tourist destinations, they will not be exactly the same as the original ones.

3 – Be spontaneous.

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It’s not the perfect setting for a trip, but you can also try it for something new and unexpected! Be spontaneous. Spontaneous trips are unplanned; they just happen freely. You are there, and that’s where and when you “plan” and think of everything you want to do. 

Note that spontaneous trips are not for everybody because you might get disoriented and puzzled since there are no plans, no preparations, no certain expectations – if you are not used to such trips, you might have a hard time executing and enjoying that trip. 

Nonetheless, spontaneous trips can bring out the best, most exceptional and most eventful experiences. If you’re ready for being unready, then go for sponty! 

4 – Travel with your loved ones.

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The quality of your trip is affected by who you travel with too. Travel with people you love, people that make you like yourself better when you’re with them. Travel with family, with friends, with people you’d love to spend the best days of your life with – out of town! You will be bagging home priceless memories that not only you will remember! 

Group travel is advantageous in many ways. You can distribute travel expenses among all travel participants. You have companions to do travel chores with. Your trip ideas will be made more creative and cool with other people’s ideas added to them. Enjoying trips with people you enjoy your time with is precious!

5 – Travel solo.

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Opposite to traveling with a group, traveling solo is another great way to have a noteworthy trip! Being alone on a trip has upsides, too, and it’s not simply what others think it is (lonely and boring). Being alone means you have all your time for yourself. You have the whole bed in the hotel accommodation all for yourself. It’s a “me time” trip that will give you freedom in many ways. 

Traveling solo is peaceful. If you are aiming to regain peace of mind and peace inside your chest, traveling alone can help you refresh and restart. You can learn more about yourself as well, and unravel greater versions of yourself. Sometimes, you are too concerned about other people’s well-being while forgetting yours. Traveling solo can be a self-care time for you, and there’s nothing like it! 

6 – Tick off something from your travel bucket list.

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Needless to say, travel achievements make trips absolutely historic! It’s impossible for them to be forgotten. Tick off something from your travel bucket list. Cross out something you have been wanting to try and do for a long time already! The sense of fulfillment after checking it out of your list is incomparable! 

7 – Conquer your fears through extreme adventures.

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This could be somehow part of your travel bucket list, but it could also be not because more often than not, people avoid this. How about taking on those challenges that make your knees go weak! Take them at your own risk, but conquering your fears through extreme adventures will surely keep that memory tattooed in your mind forever! 

You will be so proud of yourself after doing something you’ve never done before! And that trip will definitely be momentous! 

BEST DAY YET!

Going on a trip opens up big doors of opportunities for you to relax, have fun, and discover! In reality, traveling is a luxury – both in terms of finances and of time. The latter is because even many of those who can afford traveling cannot do so because they are too busy to travel, or they have other priorities beyond leisure trips.

That’s why when you get a hold of that golden chance to see the world from a different angle, through traveling, see to it that it becomes your best day yet!

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7 Places to Visit in Odisha

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Odisha, situated in the eastern cost of India was previously known as Orissa. The state is an ancient land with a rich cultural and architectural history. 

From breathtaking architectural landmarks to some astounding natural landscape, the state of Odisha has a lot to offer its tourist and this is what makes Odisha one of the best places to visit.

Here we have talked about 7places you can visit in your next Odisha trip.

7 Places to visit During your trip to Odisha

1. Bhubaneswar

Bhubaneswar, the capital of Odisha, is also known as the city of temples. 

The city is almost 2000 years old. Toshali, Nagar Kalinga, Kalinga Nagar, Ekamra Kanan, Mandira Malini Nagar are a few of its past names.

The name Bhubaneswar comes from the word Tribhubaneswara, which means lord of the three worlds, Shiva.

Major attractions include

  • Lingaraj Temple
  • nandan kanan
  • Dhauli Giri
  • Khandagiri and Udaygiri
  • State Museum
  • Ram Mandir
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Other than tourist attractions, Bhubaneswar has a lot to offer to its food lovers. You can find street food stalls selling finger licking snacks like Bara, Dahibara Aloodum, Upma, dalma puri, chakuli etc, Chhena Podo etc.

You can reach Bhubaneswar by air or by train, it is well connected with all the major cities of India. 

The best time to visit Bhubaneswar is from November to March.

2. Cuttack

Cuttack is the second largest city in Odisha and was the former capital, currently it is one of the important commercial hub of Odisha.

The word Cuttack, which is the anglicized form of Odia word Kata. It is one of the state’s historic cities. The city is situated between two river, Mahanadi and Kathajodi.

The city has many historic and religious tourist spots, few of them are

  • Kataka Chandi Temple
  • Lalitgiri
  • Barabati fort
  • Netaji Birthplace Museum

Other than historic and religious tourist spots Cuttack is also famous for some delicious street side foods. Some of the popular dishes includes Dahibada – Aaaludam, Chaat, Thunka Puri, Seu, Ganthia and Mixture other than that you can get Odisha’s famous Pahala Rossogolla, which is a place located between Cuttack and Odisha.

Cuttack is well connected by train and roads. The nearest airport is Bhubaneswar. Just like Bhubaneswar, the best time to visit is in between November and March.

3. Sambalpur

Sambalpur, known for its famous Sambalpuri Sarees, is one of the popular tourist attractions in Orissa. The city is situated in the Western part of Odisha.

Here are few of the main tourist destinations in Sambalpur .

  • Hirakud Dam
  • Debrigarh Wildlife Sanctuary
  • Cattle Island
  • Samaleswari Temple

The best way to reach Sambalpur is by train, it is well-connected with most of the stations in India. The best time to visit is the Winter season.

Sarsatia is one of the famous item you can get here.

4. Konark

When you hear the word Konark, it is highly likely that the image of the famous Sun temple pop-ups. 

The magnificent Sun temple was built in the 13th century, despite it being in ruins, the temple is still one of the most beautiful piece of architecture in India. Other than the Konark temple, you can visit the nearby Chandrahaga beach. Sun Temple

  • Konark Beach
  • Chandrabhaga Beach
  • Konark Museum
  • Ramachandi Temple
  • Balukhand-Konark Wildlife Sanctuary.

Nearest airport is Bhubaneswar, nearest railway station is Puri.

5. Gopalpur

Gopalpur is one of the popular beach destinations in Eastern India. Often called Gopalpur-on- The sea, has a beautiful beach with a calm, and blue Bay of Bengal.

Gopalpur is a town in Ganjam district. It is situated at a distance of 15 kilometres from the city of Behrampur. The town of Gopalpur has served as a significant East India Company harbor.

Here are few places you can visit in Gopalpur

  • Gopalpur Beach
  • Gopalpur Lighthouse

Best way to reach Gopalpur is by train, nearest railway station is Berhampur, nearest airport is Bhubaneswar.

6. Daringbadi

Daringbadi is a small hill town in Kandhmal district of Odisha’s. It is commonly referred to as “Kashmir of Odisha” due to its comparable climatic characteristics. The town is located at a height of 915 metres.

When the British were ruling this part of the country, there was an officer by the name of Daring Saheb, who was in charge of this location. Over time, this location came to be known as DaringBadi, where Badi is Arabic for “village.”

Here are few places you can visit during your trip to Daringbadi

  • Sunset point
  • Hill view Park
  • Coffee Garden
  • Nature Park

Daringbadi doesn’t have any railway station, the nearest railway station is Behrampore which is located at 125 km away from the town. Bhubaneswar is the nearest airport, which is 291 km away. You can easily book private from Behrampore or Bhubaneswar.

Best time to visit is winter, or post-monsoon season.

7. Puri

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Perhaps the most popular tourist destination in Odisha. Puri is well-known for Lord Jagannath Temple, which is one of the four holiest places for Hindus, and its beautiful beaches along Bay of Bengal.

Here are few of the popular destinations you can visit in Puri

  • Shri Jagannath Temple
  • Sri Gundicha Mandir
  • Golden Beach – Blue Flag beach
  • Swargadwar Beach

Other than visiting temples and beaches, you can taste the famous Khaja of Puri along with Chena poda. You can also get variety of sea food too.

You can visit Puri at any time of the year. But during the winters, the temperature becomes very pleasant.

The best way to reach here is by train, or if you are coming by flight, you can get down to Bhubaneswar and take a cab from the airport.

Summing Up

If you are planning for an Orissa trip, then it is better to start your trip from Bhubaneswar, as the city is well connected with major cities through airways, railways, and roadways.

The best time to visit Odisha is the winter season or post or pre-winter as the temperature becomes bearable then.

Odisha is fascinating state which has beautiful beaches, lush forests, wildlife and rich art and cultural heritage. Here we have talked about few of the places you can visit in Odisha in your next trip.

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5 Fashion Tips for Pear-Shaped Body

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Have you been in a situation where you planned the perfect girl’s night you have always dreamed of but struggled to find that perfect outfit?

Jeans, a dress, or a leather skirt? Nothing seems like the right option!

Sometimes it’s tiring to find clothes that will flatter pear-shaped bodies (I have been there too!), and that’s why I bring to you some excellent fashion tips for a pear-shaped body.

What is a Pear-shaped Body?

Dressing up is always fun and lifts up the mood every time (and for me, this is a feel-good thing). Though there are times when it becomes too stressful, especially in the scenario that I described above. The best way to dress well is to understand and determine your body size and shape and the style you personally enjoy.

Did you know that body shapes can be divided into Apple, Pear, Rectangle, and Hourglass?

Coming to our question, a pear-shaped body is a triangular frame. When your hips are a bit bigger than your bust or shoulder, it can be said that you have a pear shape. Remember that it has nothing to do with your weight.

Let’s simplify it a little more for you. A pear shape body is when

  • Your thighs and hips are bigger than your shoulder and bust
  • You have a small bust and top half
  • You have a defined waist narrower than your hips
  • You tend to gain weight in your hip, lower stomach, and thigh region.

So, if you fit in the pear shape category, you can take the help of some of my fashion tips only for you.

How to Dress Up for a Pear-shaped Body?

It’s pretty straightforward!

As we all know by now that a pear-shaped body is narrower towards the bust and shoulder than the hips. It’s important to balance your figure by drawing attention to the top half of your body.

Are you ready for some helpful fashion tips?

1. Tops for Pear-shaped body

It’s pretty simple to find that perfect top for you, ladies! You have loads of tees, tunics, and long-sleeve tops to wear with jeans, and that too any time of the year. You can fill your wardrobe with some off-shoulder or wide neckline tops, this will balance your hip area. Pair it with a fine necklace and minimal pendant.

You can opt for some bright colour tops, and for the bottomwear could be neutral, something like beige or sage green to help your figure stay in proportion. You can also choose some statement sleeves to help draw attention, like a ruffle.

2. A-line Dresses and Skirts

The focus is on the outline of the dress than the little details. Dresses of different types flatter and emphasize different parts of your body, and an a-line dress skims the hips and high region. It doesn’t add volume to the area.

So, choosing an A-line skirt or dress for your pear-shaped body gives you major winning points. Have you watched movies/series where the bridesmaid dresses are mostly A-line?

3. Wrap Dresses

Amazing for the pear-shaped body, wrap dresses are simply flattering because of the way it highlights the narrow waistline, which looks quite elegant.

If you haven’t heard of a wrap dress, then a wrap dress comes with a front closure where you need to wrap one side across the other with a string on the back or side. It subtly enhances the shape of your body.

The wrap dress increases the focus on your bust and slims the hip area, and is the perfect fashion tip for a pear shape body. You can even pair it with deep v-neck tops to bring focus to the top half and complement the rest of the dress.

4. Pants, Shorts, and Jeans

When shopping, choose pants that are flared at the bottom because that will create a full-volume look all the way down. You can shop for jeans which has a wider ankle so that the focus is away from your hip area. The best option is to purchase dark colours and avoid skinny pants, shorts, or jeans at all costs. If you are a cargo pant lover with a pear-shaped body, I’d suggest you avoid buying anything with excess detailing.

5. Jacket and Coats

Well, who doesn’t adore a knee-length coat?! Get one with some details on the top and plain towards the bottom. Going for a belted blazer is also a great option for pear-shaped bodies, drawing focus on the waist area. Choose a neutral colour bottom.

Talking about sweaters and cardigans, purchase long ones that end below your hips because they look quite classy.

Look for accessory ideas on Pinterest or Instagram to balance the whole outfit. 

What to Avoid Wearing in a Pear-shaped Body?

If you wish to downplay your hips, you can always avoid wearing the following clothes:

  • Short skirts
  • Skinny jeans
  • Narrow shoulder tops
  • Straight skirts
  • Pencil skirts
  • Kitten Heels
  • Pants with details

So, here are my teeny-tiny but effective fashion tips for pear-shaped bodies. Share with me your day-to-day struggles and what kind of clothing you prefer.

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